What is LOVE?This question had been in my mind for quite a long time...First,i think i talk about love between couples.Someone told me,when you in love with a person,when you see that person,your heart will beat very fast,you will miss him or her when you can't see him or her,in your world,he or she is the only one you think for whole day,for you,he is always perfect..is it right?For me,who is very appreciate friendship,even a friend i also will behave like this...If when you see someone,your heart will beat faster and shy,you will miss him sometime as you din see him quite a long time,but,in your mind,he is not the one you think for whole day,in your heart,he is not perfect enough...Then,what is this called??LOVE between friends or you really love him??
LOVE is really such complex thing..Maybe you too easy to fall in love with someone,but if want break,when you want to give up this relationship,it is too hard for you to do this..During this process,you will sacrifice your time,your energy,your tears and everything try to cure this relationship,and it seems like you can't even face this fact and hope for a turning point that can change everything just like before...This is not my experience,of course..LOVE can be very sweet and lead to wonderful marriage and family but also can be very sad till can cause someone do crazy things and commit suicide too..Maybe all of this got to depends on our fate...of course,we ourselves also have to try our best to cure our relationship no matter is between our loves one,our friends or families...
All of this seems easy to say out,but actually if we ourselves want to do that,it is very hard.Our hearts,our tears,our emotions,relationships seems uncontrollable.Sometime,even we tried hard,the thing also will not turn out to be the thing that we wish it to be...maybe it may turn out become more worse...which makes us more sad...This is because when we tried hard,while doing all of this effort to cure it,it seems giving us hopes...But,when it turn to be more worse which we don't even able to predict and expect it to be like this,we will be more disappointed and our heart may break into pieces...more sad if compared to we don't even do anything to cure our relationship...So,if really like this,we should do anything to cure our relationships when it changed or just don't do anything,let god decide all of this??For me,maybe i will choose both,I will do anything to cure relationships no matter is for our loves one,friends or families...no matter it turns to be more worse or better...Coz if really din do anything,one day maybe we will regret...Then,if finally after we tried our best,the thing still turn out to be more worse...I will just let god decide all of this...Hope god will do the best decision for us...Is it right??I also don't know...
Sometime we may feel tired after did all of efforts to cure our relationships...and try to give up...But,before you want to give up,maybe you should take a rest...Try to ask yourself whether you really able to give up...If can't,just take a rest and continue your efforts...Sometime we continue our efforts not only coz of our memories,or any other things...But,just coz of the people that we really concerned all the time,the people who stay in our heart all the time...We will do anything just for our cares one and loves one,right?But,sometime,if loves really changed and can't cure anymore,maybe we should learn to face the facts that our loves one's heart already changed...Of course,i think this is more applied to loves between couples...For friendship and families,there is only one thing will destroy it,that is called 'betray'...But,still,this also more applied to friendship...Until now,there is no such friend that had betrayed me.I don't know the feeling of being betrayed...But,i know,this will be very very hurt...until i don't know want to use words to describe it...I din hope this will happen to me,and i also won't let this thing happen to my lovely friends...So,i most hate such type of friends...
After all,i think,one sentence only i can concluded about LOVE,that is it is really the most complex thing in the world,and the most needed by everyone in this world.Coz,noone will brave to say that,they don't need LOVE,don't need friends,don't need families...right?
LOVE is really such complex thing..Maybe you too easy to fall in love with someone,but if want break,when you want to give up this relationship,it is too hard for you to do this..During this process,you will sacrifice your time,your energy,your tears and everything try to cure this relationship,and it seems like you can't even face this fact and hope for a turning point that can change everything just like before...This is not my experience,of course..LOVE can be very sweet and lead to wonderful marriage and family but also can be very sad till can cause someone do crazy things and commit suicide too..Maybe all of this got to depends on our fate...of course,we ourselves also have to try our best to cure our relationship no matter is between our loves one,our friends or families...
All of this seems easy to say out,but actually if we ourselves want to do that,it is very hard.Our hearts,our tears,our emotions,relationships seems uncontrollable.Sometime,even we tried hard,the thing also will not turn out to be the thing that we wish it to be...maybe it may turn out become more worse...which makes us more sad...This is because when we tried hard,while doing all of this effort to cure it,it seems giving us hopes...But,when it turn to be more worse which we don't even able to predict and expect it to be like this,we will be more disappointed and our heart may break into pieces...more sad if compared to we don't even do anything to cure our relationship...So,if really like this,we should do anything to cure our relationships when it changed or just don't do anything,let god decide all of this??For me,maybe i will choose both,I will do anything to cure relationships no matter is for our loves one,friends or families...no matter it turns to be more worse or better...Coz if really din do anything,one day maybe we will regret...Then,if finally after we tried our best,the thing still turn out to be more worse...I will just let god decide all of this...Hope god will do the best decision for us...Is it right??I also don't know...
Sometime we may feel tired after did all of efforts to cure our relationships...and try to give up...But,before you want to give up,maybe you should take a rest...Try to ask yourself whether you really able to give up...If can't,just take a rest and continue your efforts...Sometime we continue our efforts not only coz of our memories,or any other things...But,just coz of the people that we really concerned all the time,the people who stay in our heart all the time...We will do anything just for our cares one and loves one,right?But,sometime,if loves really changed and can't cure anymore,maybe we should learn to face the facts that our loves one's heart already changed...Of course,i think this is more applied to loves between couples...For friendship and families,there is only one thing will destroy it,that is called 'betray'...But,still,this also more applied to friendship...Until now,there is no such friend that had betrayed me.I don't know the feeling of being betrayed...But,i know,this will be very very hurt...until i don't know want to use words to describe it...I din hope this will happen to me,and i also won't let this thing happen to my lovely friends...So,i most hate such type of friends...
After all,i think,one sentence only i can concluded about LOVE,that is it is really the most complex thing in the world,and the most needed by everyone in this world.Coz,noone will brave to say that,they don't need LOVE,don't need friends,don't need families...right?
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